connect database thru ASP HELP!!

really appreciate ur help!!!

the error message:
Error Type:
Microsoft OLE DB Provider for ODBC Drivers (0x80004005)
[Microsoft][ODBC Driver Manager] Driver's SQLSetConnectAttr failed
/postuser.asp, line 98

and another error message:

Error Type:
Microsoft OLE DB Provider for ODBC Drivers (0x80004005)
[Microsoft][ODBC Microsoft Access Driver] Operation must use an updateable query.
/changepasspost.asp, line 62

the first one, izzit the ODBC wat i set is something wrong?but it's impossible, coz i follow the instruction given by my frens...it's correct...
i'm using m/s access as database..do i need extra one like m/s sql for assistance?

One more question. Do i need EmailServer Object coz when the user register an new account, i randomize the password and will send the password to the user. Do I need that?if so, where i can find or donwload it?Full or trial version?

gsConnect = "Driver={Microsoft Access Driver (*.mdb)};DBQ=" & Server.MapPath("auction.mdb"). Actually i store m/s access in c:\inetpub\wwwroot\ Do i need to change directory?how?

pls help dis poor guys, poor language...
thanks!!!